Couples
Understanding a relationship together.
Couples therapy does not have to begin only when a relationship is near its end. It can also be the place where you talk to each other about what everyday life leaves no room for.
Not who is right
It is not about establishing who is right.
We look at patterns that repeat: how conversations go, where they stall, which expectations stay unspoken, and what function that has served so far.
The central question is what dynamic has developed between two people — and what both want to make of it.
What it can be about
These themes usually connect. We look at them not one by one but in relation to each other.
Recurring dynamicsPatterns that repeat in conflict and in everyday life.
CommunicationHow you speak to each other — and where conversations reliably tip over.
Closeness and distanceDifferent needs for connection and for space.
SexualityWishes, changes, the unspoken.
TrustRuptures, coming back together, the question of what will hold.
Future plans and transitionsBig decisions, life changes, differing pictures of what comes next.
Thoughts of separationSorting out what is — before a direction is fixed.
Session format
- Couples session
A first step is enough.
If a conversation seems useful to you, write to me via It’s Complicated. The initial consultation is for getting to know each other — with no obligation.